Speaking Of Frustration, Fear & Other Frivolously Flighty Feelings!

Speaking Of Frustration, Fear & Other Frivolously Flighty Feelings!

By Larry L. Nichols

Speaking of frustration, fear and other frivolously flighty feelings, I thinks it’s only fair and fitting to finally face the facts and force these farcically false and formidably fatal, fanatical fancies from our frantically forlorn foreheads and fiercely fling them into the fabulous fierce fires of freedom forever!

If that last sentence makes you want to explete a few “F” words of your own, feel free to join right in.

I simply don’t understand how so many of these so called renowned and world famous “Super Gurus” of Life and Business can continue to get away with so of these utterly inhuman and ridiculously robotic, mechanical mantras and mystical mush-headed mottos such as: “To be truly successful, you must always remain thoroughly positive, unabashedly strong, constantly upbeat unalterably optimistic!

What a total bunch of cr*p these phony puppets are proudly proclaiming through their problematically profound pie holes!

Question: Can any human being do so?

I’m a pretty well read guy. If you look throughout all of the much revered religious books studied throughout the ages and from around the entire globe, you will find a vast collection of ancient stories of even the very deities that control the universe, angrily shaking the Earth with earthquakes, throwing lightning bolts, and whipping up raging sea storms to drown stubborn sailors who chide and jeer at the gods they won’t fear.

Hey even in the Bible, God admits he has some regrets about how things have turned out with Mankind and Jesus wept. But somehow we mere mortals are somehow supposed to be able to always keep it together and be thoroughly smiling and happily upbeat all of the time, or we are instantly doomed to utter and complete failure. WOW, what a total and complete downer that would be if it were even partially true!

The truth is, it’s not even about what we as human beings allow ourselves to feel. Not allowing yourself to feel creates horrible blockages of denial which eat away at the very fabric of your consciousness like a self created, internal cancer. No, we are supposed to face and deal with our feelings, allow them to teach us whatever we need to learn from them and then let them go.

Instead, it’s really what we actually choose to do about those feelings that counts and matters most! The fact is, we humans can never hope to learn to completely control what all we think and feel.

It’s simply genetically not in our make up, we are not mere programmable computers, but are, in fact, all extremely complex and intricately weaved webs of cleverly creative and complicated character qualities and inner drives and passions that make us enigmas to even our selves.

The lesson to learn is NOT that we are to avoid or deny or thoughts, fears, concerns, worries and nightmares, but rather we are to face them and not allow them to knock us off track or destroy us.

Don’t hide from you your fear, if you do you will become a frightened and paranoid psychotic. Don’t deny your anger; if you do you will become a stone cold bully. Don’t run from your dreams or ignore your worries and concerns, they may be your inner self trying to send you a very vital and valuable message.

Simply face your fears and feelings and learn what you can from them as you meanwhile dedicate yourself more committedly to continue to move forward on your chosen path and beyond this precise point in the path where the fear or feeling’s message is pertinent to your process and progress.

Only automatons don’t have moments of normal human frustration, disappointment, worry or even fright. Automatons can’t help you to become a better person, because they are NOT people themselves.

Don’t fall for their insanely inane and idiotic antidotes to human feeling. Success in both business and life is all about following and pursuing your personal passions. How can you pursue passion if you can’t feel your feelings?

Isn’t time for us all to get passionate once again about those very things we once were so very passionate about that they served to make us who we are, and drive us to where we want to go and be in life? By Job, I think we’ve got it!

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